MAY 10, 2012
Apologies
Read: Matthew 5:21-26
If you . . . remember that your brother has something against you, . . . first be reconciled
to your brother. —Matthew 5:23-24
Mark messed up. He arrived an hour late at a restaurant where he
was to meet a friend from church. The friend had already left. Feeling
sorry about his mistake, Mark purchased a gift certificate from the
restaurant and stopped at a local card shop to search for an
apology card. Among hundreds of cards, he was surprised to find
only a few “sorry for my actions” cards in an obscure part of the
store. He purchased one and gave it to his friend who accepted
his apology.
Although apology cards may not be popular, apologies are frequently
needed in our relationships. Apologizing is a biblical action. Jesus
instructed His followers to make things right with those we’ve
offended (Matt. 5:23-24; 18:15-20). And the apostle Paul said,
“If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with
all” (Rom. 12:18). Living at peace may require apologies.
Apologies can be hard to make because it takes a spirit of humility
to admit our mistake, which may not come naturally for us. But
taking responsibility for how we were wrong in a situation can
bring healing and restoration to a relationship.
Have you messed up? Swallow your pride and make the first move
—even if you can’t find a card to help you say it.
Whenever you offend a friend,
Apologize and make things right;
For if you will admit your wrong,
You may avoid a needless fight. —Sper
The best way to get the last word is to apologize.
Source: Our Daily Bread 2012
